Preference..

Is it a preference or is it a obligation to be bisexual, gay, or lesbian? Some people believe that it is an obligation, a natural being of their personality, while others believe that it is a preference, a choice, a decision made up in the mind of the indivisual. Usually, the people that believe that it is really just "who they are", have been struggling with finding themselves for a duration that has left them stressed, vulnerable, and lonely. They have been contimplating with themselves time and time again, trying to be like everyone else, until they just couldnt bare to do it anymore. They have accepted the "fact" that they will be nothin more or less than a homosexual. Nothing or no one can ever change who they are or what they feel about the opposite or same sex, right?........ Wrong! I strongly believe that it is a preference! They can chose what they want to do. It is no different from being a straight male, and chosing not to do it with an ugly female, because after all, he is attracted to females! He chose not to be attracted to her according to her apperance. You may be able to argue the point that it may be hereditary, and that they dont have a choice, its just who they are. And that may just be the case, but how do you explain alcoholism that is hereditary. Alholics are known for being usually paternaly hereditary, yet, there are people who happen to be the sons and daughters of the alcoholics, and make the CHOICE, NOT to drink. After all evidence and examples have been showcased, I am open to all opinions, and still very lost and interested on different perspectives on this subject. Tell me, is it a preference, or an obligation.